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As soon as I saw my husband, Ralph, on Facebook, I knew that he was going to be my husband. I met him as a teenager. He was playing football, and he was playing football well. I had my eye on him. Imagine my surprise when he took off his helmet, and I saw how handsome he was. I was smitten. At that particular time, Ralph had a girlfriend so he didn't see me like I saw him. Forty years later, I reached out to him on Facebook. I told myself that if he responds, I know for certain that he was going to be my husband. I wasn't wrong either. I love my husband dearly.
Everything that transpired during our courtship just confirmed that he was going to ask me to marry him. You don't have to waste your time with Mr. Wrong anymore. There are signs. How do you know that he is your person?
Here Are 10 Signs That The Guy You're Dating Is Your Husband:
1. He Talks About A Future With You
Men don’t bring up things that they want to avoid. When a man brings up future plans with you, he is already thinking about being with you long term. More than likely, he sees you in his life for "a couple of forevers."
2. He Includes You
He introduces you to his family. You have become his plus one to all special events and family holidays. This means that he is planning a future with you in it.
3. He Loves Touching You
Your man will be way more touchy-feely. No need to elaborate here.
4. He Misses You
You will feel like nothing can get in the way when your man has made the decision to make time to see you. When he makes a promise about plans, he will follow through. On the flip-side, if he is always calling to break plans, this means that he isn't prioritizing his time with you.
5. He Only Sees You
He will not have a wandering eye that will make you feel jealous or uncomfortable. Your man will be focused on you even in a crowded restaurant.
6. He Opens Up to You
If your man opens up about something that’s upsetting or bothering him, this means that he trusts you. This is a level of closeness that is definitely leading down the path to marriage.
7. He Doesn’t Run Away During the Hard Times
There will be challenging points in relationships. You may even bring some challenges in the relationship that has nothing to do with him. During these times, if your man stays by your side and doesn’t run away, this is a good sign that he will want to be by your side on your wedding day.
8. He Can’t Get Enough of You
This means that he wants you right by his side in almost everything. He already acts as if you are his better half.
9. He Said That He Wants to Marry You
Even if he’s joking when he says that he wants to marry you, it means he is comfortable enough to mention that you are his person. He just wants to see how you feel about it. If your man is saying that he wants to marry you, you are probably wifey. He wouldn't say it if it wasn't true. Whether your guy has or hasn’t verbally expressed his interest in marrying you, keep an eye out for these signs that it’s on his mind.
10. He Responds Well When You Tell Him You Are Dating With A Purpose
Be transparent. It is probably good to tell your man up-front that you are dating with a purpose. Most men will understand what that means. It means you want to get married. Both of you can determine early on if the relationship has potential if it is understood that you don't want to date for fun only. If you run the guy off, he wasn't your husband anyway.
Here I am purposely engaging in living an inspired life!
Blessings,
Rachel Mason
