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The Tinder Swindler: He's not the Only One!

The Tinder Swindler is a documentary that tells the story of a group of women who were the victims of a dating scam! I can't believe that this joker swindled all those women out of their money. I understand helping someone when you are in a mutually exclusive loving relationship but this man and countless other men are out here getting money without even proving their love.

Ladies, when a man asks you for money, you need to ask yourself: What great thing has this man done for me? The answer cannot be good sex! If your answer is good sex, you will give your life savings over to a man who you should've stopped talking to after you said, "Hello." So, where do we go from here ?

There are always red flags, ladies! You've got to recognize a red flag when you see one. Please, do not pretend like he didn't say this or that or do this or that? If you see red, that man has got to go!

If you meet a man on a dating app and he wants money from you for his sick family member or for a surgery that he needs, keep it moving!

If you meet a man on a dating app or in-person and he asks you to help him get a car or get his car fixed so he can come see you, keep it moving!

If he asks you for money in-person and you never met his family, keep it moving!

If he asks you for money and promises to pay you back without having a job, keep it moving!

If he professes his love for you and you all just met, keep it moving!

If he seems too good to be true, keep it moving!

As for me, I think anyone can get swindled if you don't know how to spot red flags. Thanks be unto GOD that I am married to a man who loves me for me. I came to the marriage giving him all of me. Let me just say in a mutually exclusive loving relationship it is perfectly fine to help one another financially. The truth is true love shares! The operative word is "shares." However, if you are single, you need to actively look out for The Tinder Swindler because there is more than just one out there!

My prayer for you today is that you are careful out there, and that you live an inspired life.

Here I am purposely engaging in inspired living!


Rachel Mason